Ok ladies, this ones for you. Have you ever met a girl that was just so mean? She judged you all the time and was your worst nightmare? Or, *gulp* maybe your that type of girl? [I would hope not!] Sadly, there are those kinds of gals around, it seems like their life goal is to ruin nice girls' lives. I think every girl has a "mean girl" moment. I sure have, I have moments where I can be spiteful, or judgmental, I try not to, but at times I'm not very Christlike. :( I have encountered many jealous girls, some at co-op, others in peter pan, camp, their everywhere. All these girls said i was ugly, lied about me, and stole my guy away if i had one, I remember crying my eyes out, begging God for mercy. I know a girl at co-op, she claims we're friends, but often doesn't act like one. She reminds me of my painful past, compares me to girls and tells me i should become better, and has caused me much grief. That's when my mean girl moment hit, I wanted to have my revenge, she was causing to much hurt in my life, but what would Jesus do? He would love her anyway. He would give her what she didn't deserve. Which is totally hard. But, Christ gave me what i didn't deserve, so guess I can love the unlovable. Don't be the mean girl, gals, just don't. Don't be known as mean and cruel. Be known as sweet, and kind. Don't be the gossip, give love to those who don't deserve. Keep those secrets your friends tell you, have a fun side, dont be boring or mean. Just be crazy! Be the fun girl! instead of people saying "Oh my gosh she's so mean," or "oh my word, she's so dull" they'll say "wow! She's just so fun to be with! That girls got spunk!" Be that girl! Have fun with it! Alright, I must go. Love you gals!
The Dreamer of Dreams